Every day you play several parts: student, friend, son or daughter, teammate. Sociologists study these parts, the positions behind them, and how they add up to who you feel you are.
Status: our position in society
Status is the position a person holds in a group or society. There are two main types:
- Ascribed status is given at birth or fixed by things we do not choose, such as being someone's child, or the family we are born into.
- Achieved status is earned through our own efforts and choices, such as becoming a doctor, a team captain or a top student.
Roles: how we act out status
Every status comes with a role, the expected pattern of behaviour that goes with it. The status 'teacher' carries the role of preparing lessons and marking work. We usually play several roles at once, which sociologists call a role set.
Role conflict
Sometimes two roles pull against each other. A parent who is also a nurse may be called into work on the evening of their child's school play. Being a good nurse and a good parent clash at that moment. This is called role conflict, and everyone experiences it at times.
Identity
Identity is our sense of who we are, built from how we see ourselves and how others see us. It is shaped by many things: family, gender, nationality, ethnicity, religion, interests and the groups we belong to. For many people, faith and family are central parts of their identity. Because identity is learned through socialisation rather than fixed at birth, it can grow and change over a lifetime as we take on new statuses and roles, meet new people, and decide for ourselves which groups and values matter most to us. In this way identity is something we actively build, not simply something we are given.